love coach


Empowering couples to translate their relationship complaints into constructive goals and turn their lofty visions into everyday realities.


"Aiming for awesome early and often."
While she has a Masters degree in Education, Counseling and Guidance and 25 years of coaching and teaching experience, it is Gaby Sundra’s own “messy-to-magical” marriage that allows her relationship guidance to be so spot on. Her innovative methods at For Better Love are fiercely forward focused, gently shifting any negativity into concrete action steps. She’s a wiz at supporting couples in not just digging themselves out of a relationship ditch, but cultivating a couple culture of "aiming for awesome".
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Top Talks

Gaby has dozens of topics and is always creating more.  Here are her current top talks ranging from calming conflict cures to inspiring intention setting to argument aftermath clean up. Plus she takes requests. What do YOU want to talk about?

Will these trying times bring you and your beloved closer or pull you apart? Uncover which of the 5 most common conflicts is impeding your intimacy and find out what to do about it.

Know when and how to be naughty or nice in all the right places. Save being nasty for your sexlife. Get clear on what you want, what gets in the way and how to move past it.

Don’t walk on eggshells, avoid the important conversations, or let disagreements turn into disasters. Learn this count-on-able communication tool now.

Being so different than your beloved can be difficult OR it can be delightful. Lean in to turning your seemingly opposite attitudes into surprisingly awesome advantages.

Don't just tame tensions that flare up in a relationship, use these 3 top tips to become a calm, compassionate and creative communicator that can navigate hurdles with ease.

Turn OFF the relationship autopilot and turn ON the intentionality.  Bust free from blaming or defending and build a relationship designed for delight. Aim for awesome instead.

The argument is over. Don’t just move on, move FORWARD. Ask these six questions and turn your blow out into a breakthrough.

Your day-by-day communication dictates not just if you stay together, but if you’re actually HAPPY. Embrace this ONE top tip and avoid the death-by-a-thousand-paper-cuts dynamic.

Marriage isn’t easy, but it can be simple. Apply these four foundational practices and turn your hurdles into hopes and then your hopes into a happy, healthy and hot relationship.


Gaby's got just what the doctored ordered when it comes to healing relationship rifts, but it's her aspirational approach that really stands out.  Ranging from no-cost content to low-cost courses, along with a fun store and personalized coaching programs, she's got couples covered.


Access quick and no-cost content on how to Keep the Fights Clean and the S❤x Dirty before they start, as they get going, during them and after they're done.


Go at your own pace on the device of your choice as you explore our courses on communication, connection and creating an intentional Couple Culture.


Get personalized support designed to meet you and your relationship where you’re at now, while also cultivating and nurturing an intentional, aspirational, forward focus.


Tame the fighting tension and turn on the sexy tension with these playful, peaceful and passionate products for Keeping the Fights Clean & the S❤x Dirty. 

Love Praise &
High Fives

Raj and I know full well that we could rave about a Playful, Peaceful, Passionate Relationship until the cows come home, still it might seems a little too pie in the sky to you. So don’t take it from us, check out the Love, Praise & High-5s that we’re getting.

"Most "relationship work" is heavy, dramatic and complaint focused, but with Gaby and Raj it's refreshingly light, fun and focused on what we REALLY want."

Jasmine & Tobin
Northampton, MA

"Creating our couple culture and engaging in these processes have been phenomenal and so worth it."

Laguna, CA

"Gaby and Raj are incredibly authentic, reliable and professional - a truly world class team of relationship experts that makes working on your relationship fun."

Toronto, Canada

"No one else has that one-two-three punch of simple, fun and effective. Their stuff works, and you don't have be a brain surgeon to get it."

Boulder CO

"Their unique, light and effective techniques bring love, humor and harmony back into a relationship. The outcome is awesome, but they make the actual work fun too."

Venice CA

10! Awesome! Life changing! Amazing!

Denver, CO

"t's such a relief to have this space to be more honest and open with each other about what we want most. We used to dance around things a lot. Now we're airing them out in a really healthy way. I am proud of us."

Venice, CA

"That's a fist bump for sure."

Los Angeles, CA


These four values are the cornerstone of Gaby's work with couples. If you have a sense of play, peace and passion in your relationship, you've won the relationship trifecta. And the best way to create play, peace and passion is to be pro-active.